So I have recently been chatting a lot to this girl and we are considering taking things to a new level and start a relationship. She lives 200 miles away which is a bit of a bitch but she is amazing and love talking to her and have booked a train down next week to see her. Today we were chatting on the phone and she decided to tell me that she was ENGAGED to her ex boyfriend of 2 years (on-off relationship).
They split up in January this year and he has text her more than a few times and said that he still loves her and wants to marry her and all this other stuff. He also also threatened to commit suicide and all this other nonsense too. She broke up with him since he was playing her and chatting to other girls and just being a "player" as they say. She has said that she doesn't think she will ever get back with him and says that I am 100x better than her ex. But just the fact she said "think" rather than "I will never go out with him again" just put some thoughts into my head.
This has really gave me a lot to think about. I still want to go see her and spend time with her but this new information just keeps running though my mind. The fact she is 200 miles away and lives in the same town as her ex and I'm so far away also crosses my mind.
What do you guys think? Should I be worried or what should I be thinking about this?
Additional info: She is 17, the ex was her first love/relationship, she was young and considers him and the engagment a mistake, I really care about this girl