Did I hurt him??

[FreeMiss]

I have been dating a policeman in the SWAT team for a couple of weeks now... Then yesterday in our third date, he showed an interest in going to my home and have a kiss and some cuddling.. I told him I want to take things slowly as Im not ready yet.. he got mad and he told me that "I hurt him"!! Did I?? how is that even possible??

I really dont know.. Hope Ill get some insight from you..

[pcmaster]

You hurt his ego. He thought he can pull it off easy like you are just another girl. Good that you didnt act cheap and told what you want. If he would respect you he would be okay to wait and take it slowly.

[searock]

You did nothing wrong. He seems manipulative.