fall in love with my doctor

[Cat&Dog]

Hi there

anybody had crush on your doctors ? I do at the moment

Could anybody advise how i can make my doctor ask me out. I am very sure he likes me ) Don't tell me I should ask him out, I would never ask a man out first no matter who they are

cheers

[Nicholas_V]

you do realise I hope that you could get him fired if he makes a reputaton of dating his patients

[Cat&Dog]

Hi Nicholas

Thanks, I do know. it is against the professional code of conduct or professional ethical duties if a doctor dates his patients. thats why I am asking for advice here

cheers

[sookie6]

Don't tell me I should ask him out, I would never ask a man out first no matter who they are

cheers

It's a silly rule, one you might want to bend if you want a date.

[Nicholas_V]

Well, on the assumption that you are both adults one may argue he should be able to think for himself and decide whether he wants to take this risk or not. First of, you need to establish whether he is single or not. If not, change doctor. If he is, signal that you are too (in an elegant way) and that "you're currently looking". If the guy is interested that wll be an obvious enough signal for him to make a move. If not, accept defeat and find another crush.

[IndigoGal]

If your doctor is ethical, he will not ask out a patient. No amount of hinting will do it. If you're truly interested in the guy, the only way it would be ok to date him is if he is no longer your doctor. It's a good idea to find out if he's single, however I'd say if he IS single, that's when you'd change doctors. Then you can have a conversation with him that you're changing doctors because you really like him and you're hoping that will open the door to being able to date.

[ShellyZ]

You can't date him and be his patient at the same time. He'll lose his license if he does that.

[Cat&Dog]

Thanks he is not my doctor anymore from today, but I couldn't say anything rather than asked some medical advices before I left his office. I guess I only have to wait for the miracle. The reality is sucks

[vashti]

What kind of doctor is he?

[gingerina]

You should have done some kind of back up plan, just in case he doesn't call. How you are planning to meet him now if you are not calling him or not going to his clinic?

[Superfantastich]

pap smear?