Sorry guys but here's my story. There's this white guy in my class who is really cute . I had been observing him since last term but thought nothing of it. Well this term he's been sitting in front of me, next to some other girls. One of the girls (they are both white) is cute and always flirting and holding him. I didn't realise how much i liked him. Didn't realise either that i was not the only one who though he was cute. Almost everyday he now sits next to them ( i.e. right in front of me). It is extremely distracting. I told my friend we should change sits. I don't know how he or she does it but she always saves a sit for me and its right behind the guy. Ok my mum is mixed her father is white -french but i've never dated a white guy before. I am 23 studying towards an MD (doctor of medicine)and so are my classmates. I consider myself to be above average (well i've had compliments from white guys come up to me saying i' m beautiful or pretty and black guys too although i consider myself to be just above average). It's really bugging me and considering i'm in med school its not really helping in my concentration. I don't usually make the first move and i don't know if girls should. It would have made things easier if we were introduced. Considering the differences in culture and the way i was brought up (black culture), i'm really confused on how i'm supposed to react. I know he is not going out with the white girl but does he like her? is that why he sits with them ? I really need some help guys. Plus what do white guys think about dating coloured women???????