my separated husband who I have trying to get back with has found someone else. At first he said to her he has strong feelings for me. We used to meet up for coffee, go out for days and he would help me. Now he is all loved up and doesnt want any contact until he contacts me. I am prepared to do the no contact thing but am scared he will never contact me again unless he absolutely has to. I saw him in the car with this girl and he seems to not care. It is Christmas soon and last year wespent it as a family. This year I fear I will not see him and my 20 yr old and 23 yr old will spend it with him in the morning and me in the afternoon.
We have been married for 25 years. I know I have to get on with my life but I hate the fact that I cant even be his friend now. When he first told me about her 6 weeks ago he was talking of trying again with me. Now it seems like he hates me and has no feelings at all while he is all loved up. We have been separated for just over a year.
He doesnt like other peoples children much. She has 3 kids and he told me how he gets on so well with them and they get on with him. How he is so happy with this woman and she is so happy with him.
I have lost my job and just feel so alone. I am trying to start afresh but some days it is so hard.
Any suggestions?
Thanks