I have gotten to know this guy gradually. After getting to know him and developing fellings i learned that he is active on tinder and dates several women a week. He even goes on there in the middle of the night. I am certain this is true. This came as a surprise to me because he is so kind and sweet to me. He is thoughtful and even cares about my dietary restrictions. He is just very tender and caring. And i see him a lot. A lot.
If i knew he was doing this behind the scenes and the reason he hasnt hing out with us at times was because he was on a date i would never have developed feelings.
But now i know and i am not sure what to think. Is a guy like that a safe bet? It appears he is hunting conquests.
I know he was hurt very badly years ago by his first love. And now apparently is a serial dater. Should i move on?