Quick background. Met a girl on eHARMONY about 5 1/2 weeks ago. Very strong so far, very. We are 100% open, honest, and ourselves around each other. Things have just been unbelievable, never really met someone who I can be myself completely, and the same with her. So she's spent the night a handful of times at my place (it's easier for her in the morning with work, then me going to her place).
Last night, was the first time I spent the night at her place. I walked into her bedroom, and saw this huge painting of a naked lady over the bed. I asked "What is that?" and she said "That's me." I was immediately creeped out. I just saw Titanic the movie a few weeks ago, and it reminded me of that. A little background: She was with a guy 5 years, they were engaged, and he is an artist. I am not sure how long ago that ended, I want to say maybe 2 years ago. But I guess he painted that picture of her, and to be honest, I can't recall being that uncomfortable in a long time. Why? I don't really know. I never really brought this up to her yet. I told her when I woke up this morning that I had a horrible night sleep, bad dreams, and today was an off day. She made me breakfast, comforted me, and I told her if I can organize and rationalize whats on my mind, I might share. I don't like holding anything back, as that is not me. But I am not sure what to think. Some would look at it as an innocent painting I am sure. Any input? This being blown out of proportion?