Help with approaching women you've never met before

[Popsandfriends]

Edit....no more... :/

[Gigabitch]

Okay, first of all, you should know that girls talk. It's what we do. Rest assured that *she* already knows you like her. Ask your mutual friend whether she thinks you'll get a nice reception or you'll get shot down. If it's still looking good after that, you really have no excuse, and I will have to conclude that you have no balls.

You don't want me to think that, do you?

[enterprise]

For the amount of guys that have no balls (including myself) how is it there are children in this world? How do we grow in population?

[Popsandfriends]

Edit.........

[Gigabitch]

Oh, for God's sake, would you just go and talk to her?

Tell me, what could you possibly have to lose?

And enterprise, for every guy without balls, there's some jerk who gets the girl, not because he deserves it but because he simply asks. Nice guys should try more. The world would be a better place.

[The Great OV!!!]

Oh, for God's sake, would you just go and talk to her?

I real have no advice for the guy except to try and bump into her or have his friend help him more.

[Freeway3137]

Pops...

You just gotta act like your not trying to get with her. What I mean is, just don't think about it.

How would you approach a new kid at your school that has no friends yet? Or how would you approach an everyday buddy.

Just MAKE (and I mean FORCE) yourself to be confident. Now that doesn't neccesarily mean you actually ARE confident but just making a confident impression, in time will get you confident.

Trust me.

You better be posting about talkin to this chick in the next week!

[Freeway3137]

Oh and don't go up to her and say "Hi I'm Hunter" that'll be awkward for both of you.

Try to get close to her in the hall while walking to your locker and just say something that's relevant to the situation and then the next time you see her it'll be a piece of cake.

Breaking the ice is the hardest!

[Popsandfriends]

Hmm. By situation you mean? Just people being boring in the halls? Or what kind of situation?

[The Great OV!!!]

Hmm. By situation you mean? Just people being boring in the halls? Or what kind of situation?

Let me tell you something, this is coming from a person who missed out on his opportunity...just like you will. I know you will not do it...because you are asking to many questions...I asked a confident friend what he would say one time and he said "whatever the hell I feel like"...I asked "wont it be akwered?" He said...."what is wrong with akwerd?" that is when it hit me...it just doesn't matter...if she likes you enough then you can make a complete ass out of yourself and she will still respond and maybe give a good response. I WAS SUCH A DOUSCHE BAG in high school, the girl tried to actually start a conversation with ME and I nearly currled up in a ball into a corner. Now that I think about it, I could have said ANYTHING and I probably would have been dating her.

Just don't offend her...and for a quiet moment...try saying something funny.

[Freeway3137]

dude just punch yourself in the face and take it like a man!

I'm serious, get all the thoughts out of your head, and just talk to her!

that or take some adderoll or get a few beers in you....

[Freeway3137]

here i got something for you

Just go up to her and ask how much here shoes were because your little sister or cousin that you're close with wants the same exact kind and her birthday is comming up.

Shit that's something to break the ice

EDIT: and act all interested when asking, don't be a monotone (raise the eyebrows to really get her attention)
and look her smack dab in the eyes, intimidate her so that the next time you talk to her she'll see you as a confident man

[Popsandfriends]

edit........

[Gribble]

Or she'll think you have rabies.

[Freeway3137]

It won't break the ice on it's own but it'll help.

Remember you're still gonna have to talk to her first because like you said, she's shy.