Why? I am currently dealing with this, I am friends with one girl meet her friend, so she shows interest then super snowball effect!! I feel like it isn't even about me anymore, it's like they just want to beat the other one in getting asked out first. It is actually a bad thing if a girl likes one of my bros, I totally sign off on her, why do women do this? My only guess is women have no clue what they want but if he is good for her then he must be worth something...