Hello, so lately I've been talking to a wonderful sweetheart girl. She's probably my dream girl to be honest. There's only one thing about our whole situation that's kinda messed up. She went through a really bad break up about half a year ago.
She was in a relationship with a guy for 5 years and they were going to get married, but it turned out he was cheating on her so they ended the relationship and never got married.
This girl tells me she really likes me a lot, she even shows me this when we're together. But every now and then she'll flake on me for a few days, I'll ask her what's on her mind and she just tells me she's afraid that I'm going to hurt her. She says I sort of give off a player vibe and stuff. (Which I'm not, but I do have a way with girls and have no problem on dates)
I said to her "Well it seems to me like you really want our relationship to move forward, but you feel insecure about us being together. I just want you to know I like you a lot and if I didn't I wouldn't try to keep this going." She agreed with what I said.
Now I'm just thinking maybe I'll give this a break for a few days and wait for her to contact me, but I don't want her to think I'm trying to get rid of her. We have plans scheduled to go out tomorrow night, but I'm almost 100% certain she's going to flake.
What do you ladies suggest?
-AlexD