I have become very close to this girl and one day we were talking about how attracted we were to each other. Then she asked what my turn ons were, after I told her she said that I had found all of hers except one. I laughed and said well if I haven't found it yet, I might never find it. She must have decided this was true so she told me that it was a hip massage. damn. I have no idea how to massage anything but my best friends feet. I've looked all over but none of the massages techniques for hips seem casual enough. They all seem like something a pro would do, and i don't want it to be like that. can anyone point me in the right direction on how to massage my girlfriends hips in an intimate, but lovingly casual way? I want to be able to please her, she really deserves it.