Ok, my question for the girls is a common one in a awkward situation.
I know a girl that I've known for 2 weeks.
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SHORT VERSION
I love this girl
I think she is very attracted to me
She has a boyfriend whose a loser
I know that she will be happier with me logically (and a tad bit of vanity, but more logic)
I want to be with her with as little "friction" to push her away from the boyfriend she feels committed with, but I feel like I have one chance to do this right.
What is best way?
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LONG VERSION (explains everything from first thing that comes out of my head)
I know she thinks of me as smart because she uses me to help her with class (though we talk most of the time :3), funny because the things I say makes her laugh a great deal of the time (and not the annoying fake laugh I hear from women), and cool because... if I felt like she was using me for my intelligence (in math, I suck typing in even my native language (SPELL CHECK FTW!)) alone, then she would want to gtfo of my house when we're done.
I think I love her because of how open she is to me, the most unique girl I have seen compared to hundreds, maybe thousands
(lolz long ass notes to explain
please skip if you don't want to read, I had a tendency to write novels to explain all details)
(girls ask me out and I turn them down because when I see their face, I see "slut" or "idiot" or "fake" printed right on their face, and I can't help but reject them (Why is because I have never had this feeling for a woman other than a girl that I loved, then separated physically, then separated internetly (what word to describe this?) from a bunch of random shit that banned my hotmail account with her address with a whole shitload of numbers I never remembered(and I feel like I'm self-absorbed for saying that -_- please understand I'm typing first thing that comes to my mind))).
AWKWARD PART- IF YOU CARE READ!
She has a boyfriend. Damn
But her boyfriend is man who constantly drinks/smokes (pot and cigarettes), has a waiter job without any intent on escalating himself, and relies on her for a great deal of money. Their first time meeting was a one night stand escalated into a relationship where she's wearing the pants (and she's not the dominant type, so you can tell she's getting tired of it)
BUT she talked about her boyfriend when she was thinking of moving away from her parents house, meaning she has attachments for him still. Still, I know I could if I made a move on her, I would have a good chance of getting to be with her more than friends, but still I want to be different since that's how I always been like, to create the perfect moment so I can make it last in her mind.
Part of me wants to dazzle her, to ask her out for a casual friendly go-out-to-somewhere and tell her how I feel in a indirect, yet romantic way before I place my lips upon her tender lips and say "I love you" and see where it goes.
The other way wants to surprise her, to tell her to close her eyes and envision the perfect moment that could happen to her for a "exercise" that I randomly have her do for "studies" (lulz) before kissing her.
Final way is just to see how it happens, but I feel so awkward since she has a boyfriend I feel like she has to tell me, but she won't because she is not the dominant type.
But no matter how I go with this, I feel like I will either scare her, making my opportunity disappear because she wants to be moral (not cheat on her boy toy (I call him that in front of her and she agrees) even said "Damn why don't you just use a dildo to please yourself than" and she says "but it doesn't feel the same") This could also result in future guilt set on her boy toy to put her down in the future which will cause problems because the girls who are especially prone to emotions will feel guilt.
I know she likes me as much as I like her, but I want her to live a happy lifestyle, and not only is her boy toy isn't providing for her, but because of my selfish ambitions (if they are), I really wish to be there to make her happy, satisfied, and loved.
So for a common situation for a awkward moment, I know she likes me a great deal and she belittles her bf, but should I make a move?
I feel like if I wait, I will only want her more just to have her be "just friends" with me in my first (which is usually) best chance. If I don't wait, I'll be classified as a desperate man who is wanting her just because I can't get any others (which I could (hell ANY guy could (except for Chinese men when they grow up lulz, but I don't want just any girl, I want her dammit))
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Finally, why do I have to write a post asking what should I do?
I mean it pisses me off the fact that I should make a decision and just tell her to date me and screw her if she says no, but I live in a state (maybe country(maybe world)) where most girls are lazy, has a child, or idiotic, and I found one girl who isn't a slut, is decently smart, and mature while still maintaining a outgoing attitude (a rare find I feel like) and though I am not going to change who I am for even her, I want my first presentation of love to be as perfect as possible.
Free cookie to the first woman that reads my novel of a forum post =D