Infatuated and Confused

[gamemakerchick]

Ok here goes. So I met this guy online a bit ago, we chatted online for a while until we swapped numbers. After that we texted for a while and decided to meet. We hung at my place and talked for three to four ours, and both decided after the meeting that we both had an attraction to the other person. Since then we have hung out (mainly at his place - he got hurt during training and it hurts for him to even drive). We both have many of the same interests, both have children from a past marriage. I had told him at first that I had wanted to go slow, and he was fully supportive (still is) of that decision, wanting me to be comfortable. However... I can't get him out of my head! I wake up and fall asleep thinking about him! I don't tell him this, nor bombard him with texts and calls all day (maybe about 3 or 4 texts), but after he started going back with his unit daily, and I have been home alone on bed-rest, I have had tons of time to think, and I can't get him out of my head! How do I/do I tell him that I want a relationship with him? I am scared that he will reject me or think I am weird for asking/telling him. Do I tell him how I feel? I am so lost.

[frenchy]

I don't know but I would not tell him how you feel just right now....I would wait until....even when he tell you how he feel about you I would not tell him exectly how deep my feeling are for him...I read that sometime men's do that they want to know how you feel about them to re-assurate themself and once they know how you feel if they don't have true feeling for you then they play with your emotions...

It kind of happen to me...I am not one of the best person to gave you advice on that...but i had my own experience I am sure lot of people here will gave you good advice...

good luck!

[gamemakerchick]

Thanks! It's just so hard when I can't seem to get him off my mind, lol. I have even tried to cut down on how much I try to contact him, but I am afraid that will send a wrong message. I don't know, I never had these issues with my ex husband, lol.