I (21) have been with my girlfriend (22) for 2yrs now but lately things have changed for the worst and I’ve been left in bits. Ill set the scene.....being a student, we used to lived apart with other people but for the last three months we got are own flat. She now works but in still studying. Recently I have noticed a change as she seems to be distance and uninterested in me.
She got a new girl friend at work and they started heading out together now. We never head out together as we don’t have the same friends. Her friend 18 is dating but is toying with another guy and it’s the big news at her work. This drives me so crazy cos my g/f encourages her and says....'she just young', to me.
Our relationship has been through a lot and because of this I know we love each other but I feel her friends are rubbing off on her. Living together has been a mistake, things are dull and my time is taken up with exams and saving up money.
I have been down because of this and cos i’ve picked up on her attitude. It came to head when we talked about are problems seeing how down I was. She said she feels tied down and doesn’t know if she wants to be going out anymore, and decided she was moving out to give us some space and that is was better when we lived apart. A week on and thing are a lot better but what lies ahead.....? Should I prepare for a break up or put everything into it. Our 2yr anniversary is next week and was going to get flowers delivered but she mentioned not to buy stuff, as we are broke.
Sorry it’s long but it’s complicated. Anyone been in a similar situation? What should I do?