Met a new guy but did I ruin it??

[anna472]

So the other day I met up for drinks with my new neighbor (a girl) and she brought along 2 of her guy friends. We all had a great time and by the end of the night one of the guys was putting his arm around me. I found him to be attractive so I didn't object and I was a little drunk so I let him kiss me. I kissed him back lightly and passionately and he was starting to go crazy. He said he wanted badly to bring me home but he could see that I was drunk and didn't think it would be right to do it. But we kept kissing and he was like - alright let's go back to my place but I promise I won't touch you, I will be a gentleman. I will make a promise to my friend (my girl neighbor) that I won't do anything inappropriate. I just want to cuddle you all night and then we will have brunch and watch Lord of the Rings together (because I mentioned earlier that I loved that movie).

So I ended up going home with him and he was being a gentleman and was trying to be appropriate but I initiated the sex. We had crazy wild sex the whole night. He was blown away by me and said it was the best sex her ever had and ever will have. He even said - will you marry me tomorrow? (probably as a joke, and I laughed). He finished 5 times and was exhausted. We ended up staying in bed all morning and not going out to brunch and not watching Lord of the Rings. He had to leave by 12 to travel home for Thanksgiving so that was when we parted. I even helped him fold his clothes.

Later that day he texted me and thanked me for helping him fold his clothes and then mentioned that he was exhausted and felt like "bump on a log, but was itching for more". I responded with an "Aww".

Then he texted me yesterday and wished me a Happy Thanksgiving. I said- you too. How is your vacation going? He said - partied last night with my friends, and ate and slept all day today, and you?. I said - nice, I helped cook all day and ate some yummy food and now I'm really full . Then he said - time for some Lord of the Rings!! And I said - Yes!! Can't wait.

Then I realized that he didn't say "time for some lord of the rings" as an invite. He meant - I was done being busy and was full of food and I now had time to watch it, seeing as I didn't get to do so last night.
I haven't heard a reply since I said this, but I'm wondering if I'm sounding too eager and am coming off as too strong or needy. Even though he enjoyed the sex and was impressed, I don't want to turn him off by acting like I am too excited to see him. It was kind of an automatic reply on my part but I realized how it may have sounded after I sent it and that I had misinterpreted his message. Maybe I'm over-analyzing everything. Your thoughts? Do you think I ruined it?

[Skeptical]

Why did you have sex with him on the first day you met? This is never a good idea for relationships unless you were European hhaha
This guy is nice, but now he will see you as a one-night-stand girl.

[Ugly_Swan]

wait what...did you just post this a THIRD time??

[basilandthyme]

Swan, if you see duplicate or triplicate posts, report them. The Mods will combine all the posts and remind the OP to not multiple post.

(reporting now)

[michelle23]

Why did you have sex with him on the first day you met? This is never a good idea for relationships unless you were European hhaha
This guy is nice, but now he will see you as a one-night-stand girl.

Not good in europe either lol

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