Maybe I m not in the position to reply this...coz I just broke up last Sunday. But I have decided to put down my opinion. To me my "soul mate" has to be click with me, being click means we share almost the same value even tho I cannot say has to be 100%. We are just humans, right? But same mentality, same value, SOME same interest so I can hang out with him and do stuffs together [at times], HONEST [coz I hate cheaters] and all-round person. To me, I am a learner and if that person knows a lot [not saying educational smart]..that quality attracts me...I will adore or admire him alottttttt and keep me going. I think to have what I listed above..is to avoid too much conflicts of interest or argument which MAY lead to breakups.
To: lahnnabell
I admire wat you described. Is it really true? Once you have decided not to mess around...your guy appeared in ur life? I began to believe in..wishes like that that somebody UP there is planning fo you/us.
Anyway......who m I to speak.....I just lost my guy I described here
No man is worth your tears, but once you find one that is, he won't make you cry!