Dpb said:
Today 09:47 PM
Help me decipher his mixed messages!
Ok so I've been talking to this guy pretty consistently for 3 months. Invited me to his hometown, met his friends and family. Both are super nice and he even said how both really like me. He is more of the shy type, his friends and parents even mentioned that also. The friends he hangs with are super respectable and nicr also. This is also a long distance relationship of about 1.5 hours but we make decent time to see each other.
Well last week, I noticed him getting ahold of me less. We talk usually a little at night before we go to bed because we both have busy days. I confronted him about whether he was interested or not and he basically wrote me a book how he is 100% interested and how he's been super busy, feels bad, and is sorry he hasn't gotten ahold of me the past few days. I said that was totally fine, I understood. I had a weird feeling towards just how busy you can be 24/7... Sooo After that night 2 more days go by and I don't hear a word from him. My gut feeling is that there's is something going on because this has never happened. I messaged him on the 3rd day and called it quits nicely, yet never got a reply. I figured if he truly wanted to be with me he would have replied? But if he's the shy type would he still? Did I overreact or play it safe?