Hey guys . i am little stuck in things
I am a guy, 23 years of age, silent one. I am friendly kinda and funny person but don't get frank with girls at workplace for no reason. It seems stupid to me to start a self fabricated topic or find a lame topic to start discussion with girl. But this is where i think i am wrong. There are two instances actually to my loss.
i). There is a girl, Approx. two years senior to me. She admired my cuteness in front of my friends openly and not only one time but more than once. How i take it that she was interested in me. But i didn't want to start any such thing at workplace so i didn't forward with anything with her. This instance relates year ago. Last week she came across me after long time (as our area of work separated year ago). I said "Hi" to her (and my intentions was of respect, just like senior-junior relation) and she acted like she don't know me or something like that. WHAT I FELT THAT DAY THAT I MIGHT NOT HAVE HANDLED THE SITUATION QUITE WELL AT FIRST INSTANCE.
ii). There is a girl, Approx. a year junior to me. We got an opportunity to work together. My Habit of being silent. I hardly spoke to her whole day. One day, in front of out mutual friend, she said that i don't talk much. It was message from her to me that i should talk to her. but i wasn't interested to start any conversation with any girl for time pass purpose. i didn't talk to her much even then. This relates to six months ago. Last week, we came across each other quite a number of times but she ignored me at all and didn't even bother to say "Hi" for the purpose of junior-senior corporate ethics. What i think that these girls think that i ignore them on purpose.
How i should tackle the situation to my benefit. I mean i don't want girls to turn against me. How to develop friendly relationship with girls at workplace. so that they don't interpret my habit of less talking as against them. and how can i develop healthy friendly realationship with girls . what can be topics for discussion with girls.