Why do you need quick advice? Do you think you're doing something you shouldn't be?
It's so typical especially with your last sentence "i need to hear it from someone who really had experience on this...."...You know what you're doing is wrong so give up trying to gain someone's support on all this.
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings