Late night exodus (also under Male Advice)

[miss.scarlet11]

So I got home tonight, did the dishes, cleaned up for a minute, and hopped in bed for a 3 hour work-a-thon. My last goal for the evening was to clear off my bedside table. And I found it. Apparently a woman who works with my boyfriend has been pursuing him. Now I don't know if he purposefully left it for me to read, if it was an accident, or a passive aggressive way to incite a break-up.
Funny enough, Saturday night I told him that it was inevitable that she'd hit on him. Sometimes I hate being right. I'll gladly provide some of the text from the email for more context. There is nothing specific about them hooking up or having more than a 'going for a beer after work' relationship.

I texted him and asked that he give me a call...nothing.

I'm furious but also doing the benefit of the doubt game. Any suggestions?

[elny1]

Well make it anonymous or just give us the gist of the text, and on this Saturday night did you call him, text him, or talk to him in person?

[Yet another guy]

I texted him and asked that he give me a call...nothing.

I'm furious but also doing the benefit of the doubt game. Any suggestions?

Talk about it with him. Why didn't you just call him?

[bulrush]

Is there a problem with your relationship, or is this guy just a jerk who doesn't want to be committed? If he doesn't want committment and wants to date other people, at least he should have the balls to be honest about it.