About this girl. Ive been getting to know her very well for 6 months and we hadnt met. We were amazingly close , talk all day kind of thing. We both wanted to meet each other obviously and she would say things like 'i wont be satisfied till we are official and that she wanted me etc.
I went to hers, 4 hour train journey as a suprise. I stayed there 3 or 4 days, and whilst we were there we were super close, acting like a couple - even infront of her friends. She almost cried at the station too.
Since then she has been distancing herself, being blunt and not texting back etc - saying she has 'other things going on atm' and keeps saying that we a really good friends to people. When clearly we were definitely more than that. When i question her about it i dont get any kind of straight answer. No idea what to say anymore - i cant let 6 months of us go to waste for just 4 days together, and i dont think i can just step back into being good friends because that will hurt even more knowing i couldnt have her. Also hurts me when i see her blatently flirting with another guy on facebook, and mentioning him everywhere when i dont even get a text back any more. She isnt as flirty/lovely with me on skype anymore and doesnt do the cute things we used to do before i visited
I cant begin to understand where this drastic change has come from. She tells me she doesnt want to lose me, but it feels like she is trying to.
Advice on what I should do or say?