So, It's been a month and a half since my ex dumped me.
For the first month or so, we had LC. I begged, pushed her away, she came back, nothing changed, she left again, etc.
Well we had NC for about a week now and today she texted me.
"Happy Valentines Day and for all its worth... I love you."
No big deal, right? No over analyzing. I didn't write back.
20 minutes later I get another text. " Can we have lunch tomorrow I would like to talk"
I still don't write back. Idk. I just dont wanna be hurt again I dont wanna look weak.
5 minutes ago she texts me again. "Ok fine if your doing this to prove I cant just have you when I want you i understand. Its not about that anyway. If your over me then fine. The only reason I didnt call you back that one day was because ralf... i guess this is it then. i tried. bye andre. :-) "
Ralf is her brother, and last week we spoke and she said she'd call me back. He got her angry that day and she didnt call me back. But that's not an excuse, cuz its been a whole week wtf?
Idk what to do.. I didnt write back cuz Im scared of being hurt and I dont wanna look weak. Im tired of her playing games and I feel if she really wants this to work then she'll keep trying.. But what confuses me is when she said " Its not about that anyway". Wtf would it be about? Maybe she wrote that just to scare me and make me write back?
Oh and, she clearly knows I don't want to be friends. I've told her it numerous times and she totally understands that.
ANy advice?