Hello all,
I recently went through a rough-ish breakup. We ended our relationship mutually and on amicable terms, but then it got weird. We had our problems, like every couple does. Everything kind of fell apart after a bad patch back in march and then never fully recovered.
I loved her and I told her that. During our relationship I never heard it back... That is, until we broke up. It has messed me up something fierce. The first few days I didn't know what to do and was quiet. She texted me that she was upset and crying, and I kind of ignored it. That weekend (last weekend) after heavy thought I realized that it was worth a shot, now that we both had love.
So, like any other person, I called her, texted, gchated, etc, about my feelings for her. Now I realize that was the wrong move, especially after she told me that she wanted to move on. Now at this point, I'm super confused. We break up, she tells me she loves me, and then I get there is no chance of us ever getting back together and I need to move on.
Wtf? How does that work? What do I do? I know in my heart that I love her, and that I want to be with her. I realize that I have her very little space the last week which is not ok. Any advice on how to get her back? What should I do?
Thanks,
Dave