Hello all. I have something i need to speak about. I split up with the girl i loved really , really much one and a half years ago. I split up with her because she found a new guy and treated me horribly ( really cold and distant, made me feel like nothing) . I have the full story in my other posts if anyone is interested. The fact is that i really loved her and she broke my heart. Even a year after the break up she kept giving me messages and signs, saying she was sorry for what she did and that she wants to see me, but i didn't respond. After that i decided to block her everywhere and ever since then no signs of her. The fact is that i really miss her so much sometimes. I had some great times with her and probably idealized her a lot. From the moment she told me she found another guy i cut up all contact with her, but the hard part was that we were college mates and I still had to see a lot of her... It was so difficult. And she is the only girl i really loved. I dont know, i dont like missing her, i feel weird about it. She treated me so badly ,but i miss her like hell sometimes She even told me she misses me before i blocked her. I had a girlfriend during the year and a half, and now i am dating another girl , who is really nice, but i still miss my ex. Do you have any advice? I try not to hear news about her but we had many common acquaintance and it is really difficult not too. I don't like missing her, especially now when i have a new girlfriend. What should i do? Is it normal? I have a job, go to the gym, travel a lot, meet a lot of new people, but still miss her so much once in a while. I'm tired of this. I feel like she ruined me sometimes. I usually start to miss her when i hear about her, see or hear things that we used to like ( songs, movies etc. , especially songs) , or when i get into a new relationship.Thanks for the help ! I