Well, I have read a ton of material on this kind of thing (pleasuring women, that is
) and I could give you an interesting tip on how to get her going. My girl loves it when I do this, and this is the only way I can get get her off during sex if I do this prior:
1. Position yourself so that you are on her side. Left or right is not important.
2. Take your hand and, when she's ready, insert your middle and ring finger inside her. Use your whole two fingers to the point where the rest of your hand should be resting against her.
3. With your two fingers together, curl them upward against the upper wall of her vagina. Start rubbing her like that. Keep doing it...the movement should be like petting a cat or turning the page on a book.
4. An optional thing to do while doing this is take regular intervals to gently stimulate her clitoris. I say GENTLE here, because I have noticed that she gets hyper-sensitive in that area while you're doing that...my girlfriend actually jerks violently.
Give it a try if you're feeling froggy one night. The moment I discovered that little trick, my girlfriend began wanting sex a lot more. What guy doesn't want that?!