I have been dating my girlfriend, off and on, for four years. For various work and financial reasons, we have never taken a vacation together. We recently got back together after having been away from each other for awhile, and she told me that she will be going on her next vacation with her best friend because she had already made plans (although she has not booked anything and it is 2 months away). Am I being unreasonable to hope that she would have rather chosen to go on vacation with me? She says she can't break the plans because they had already made them when we were apart and it wouldn't be fair to her friend. I agree it would be a crappy thing to do, but we don't get all that much free time to ourselves and i hoped she would have thought about it. We are madly in love (at least that's what she tells me and i believe her), but maybe she's just not that committed to the relationship right now?