You have no idea how to communicate in a relationship or you would understand that he is trying to appease your tumultuous mood swings --- hence him being so 'laid back.' The poor guy is walking on egg shells.
If you don't learn how to not be so controlling or how to relax in a relationship... he'll be another 'experience' to add to your belt...
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen