Hi, I am new to this forum. I need some relationship advice, so I decided to sign up here. I am 28 year old, I got my first girlfriend about 3 months ago, and I never been happier in life. She is 21 years old and a lovely girl.
So here are my worries. About 2 months ago she told me that she was in love with another guy before she met me, but they "betrayed" each other so they never engaded in a relationship. She wanted him, but she said something that hurt him, and since then they had bad contact she told me, and that he moved in with another girl. Well no worries then, I thought. So about 2 months later, and me and her are working great together and I am so happy; I have sensed something weird last week.
It's nothing major, but I can definitely feel that something is up in the air, I am pretty good at this. She isn't as forward when we talk etc, but she still meets me and say nice things, just not like before. I am also always the one initiated our contact by phone, msn etc. I am okay with it though.
So yeah, I was browsing an Internet Community today I know she is a member off, I drop in on her profile and guestbook. And what do I see? Well I see this guy she been talking about that she rarely or never speak to anymore, writing on her wall, saying thanks for something and that it's great to see you again. I was like huh and thought, no please not a bizarre love triangle, I can't take that
It might just be nothing, and I might be paranoid, but I am not sure if I last much longer as her boyfriend if she starts talking to that guy frequently again. Afterall, he seem like a nice guy, same age as her, and looks way better than me.
I am definitely worried. I love my girlfriend, and is really proud to have her. She says she dont like jealous guys, so I am not sure if I wanna lower my chances by asking her about this, plus she will known i sneaked around on her profile (though it is a public profile it is not like i have been into her system or something)
Should I be worried? What approach should I take?