Hello I am 26 years old and my girlfriend is 25. We have had a wonderful 3 year relationship with each other and have never fought and have lived with each other for the past 2 years. She is a registered nurse and is moving home with her parents 3 hours away in the next couple weeks and wants me to come with her. I have never really thought that having children is something I wanted and I told her that in the beginning of the relationship but we continued to date. She said that she would like to have one child at 31-32 which would give me enough time to hopefully finish school to become a nurse practitioner. I am not sure that it would be a great idea to agree to have a child with her just to keep the relationship going even though I love her so much. A part of me thinks I should set her free to find someone who will fulfill her desire to have a kid but another part of me looks at the future with her and a child together and I feel that it could possibly make for a good life. I feel I would be a good father but having a child seems like such a daunting task and I don't want to fail as a father or be resentful if being a father isn't something I like. At the same time I just finished school to be a registered nurse and I am not too excited at working as a nurse from my experience from being in the hospital which is adding stress to my plate. I am in the process of looking at going to school outside of healthcare so my main priority right now is finding my career niche. I know if I don't go home with her I will lose the love of my life but keep my life child free but if I do go I could stay with my partner and would propose to her within a year or two. This is very hard for me and my mind is going in circles about which path I should go and is making me depressed on top of me having to start a new career in a stressful field or going to school for something else. Thank you for reading and any advice you can give to me at this point in my life.