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Thread: Long Distance, and i'm suffering :( What to do?

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    Long Distance, and i'm suffering :( What to do?

    So i've been going out with this girl for 2 years and 3 months now. We love each other like crazy and all. We've been doing long distance for about 6 months now. She's recently started uni, and hangs out with alot of guys and parties and stuff. She doesnt drink, but she's a VERY social girl. I do trust her, but im just VERY paranoid and overprotective, but she's not any diff than I am.
    Recently i've been VERY miserable. She's usually busy with uni and stuff, and theres a 7 hour time diff aswell, which doesnt make things easier.
    Can a girl that loves her boyfriend cheat on him?
    Is it worth suffering for another 7 months, knowing that there could be a future?
    I'm 19 btw...
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    If you're having it tough you should consider if this is really what you want because if you are going to have a LD relationship then these are things that you have to deal with all the time.

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    Break up.

    Your 19, you aren't going to marry this girl statistically speaking. LDR's seldom last, and even more seldom at that age.

    Having a steady GF in college is going to hold you back from really having fun most of the time.

    If its meant to work out you will find your ways back to each other, but this is really going to take a heavy toll on you and her if you continue.

    "What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
    You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."


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    True
    I'll think about it / see how it goes
    Can a girl that loves a guy , but is in long distance, cheat on him?
    You're a female, so yeah. What do you think?

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    dnt call Cb a female

    I can't really answer that =except from my point...I know I couldn't...because I dnt give out the love that easily so when I do I frikin mean it.....

    CB is right, you are young, and tbh, if you are going to spend the whole duration of this LD relationship wondering if she could cheat on you even though she says she loves you, do you think you could hack it any longer?

    you should be enjoying what it feels like to be with someone as much as you can, company, laughs, intimacy etc.....I wouldn't swap that for all the free internet calls and paranoia in the world...

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    is not a female.

    "What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
    You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."


    The Warmonger

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    well scratch that, if you really feel like she's gonna cheat then i'd say break up because it's not worth all the heart ache.
    Last edited by Nicoge21; 12-10-09 at 06:03 AM.

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