Long Distance

[Schakilla's Man]

....My girlfriend called me yesterday and basically told me that she doesn't know how much she loves me anymore...she says she loves me but the love she has now in comparison to 4months ago when we used to live in the same country, is different...she says she met this guy from work and she started liking him etc...and there was a time he made a pass at her and she almost didn't pull away from the kiss...she says that was like a sign..........she says she needs someone their physically....not just for sex or anything but just knowning that she has someone there............please give me soem advise here...I love her so much.....i've been with other girls but she's different...and i really do love her...

[starbuck]

Sorry but it's not clear what you're asking, Shakilla's Man. Can you clarify exactly what kind of advice you need?

[Schakilla's Man]

I want to know how to get those thoughts out of her head...let her know it's pratically normally to see someone she likes and to be tempted.....It's very clear that she loves me...it just seems that she's confused......

[Jakey]

I advise you to get out of that relationship man. If she told you she almost "didnt pull away" from the kiss, then this is not a woman you should be wasting your time with. Trust is everything in a relationship

[Karen592]

She doesn't love you enough to stay with you. She's kissed another guy without trying to back away, man. Let it go. She's not good enough for you to love her so much.

[teardrop91]

i know its hard but you have to do one of 2 things talk to her about an "open relationship" where you both can have someone where u live so you have someone physically like you described or just let her go ive had a long distance relationship i know there hard but its good that your not leting distance screw up your love for her but those are your 2 options i wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out for ya