A week ago, I met a guy who made all the right noises at the start wanted to see me all the time - he was perhaps a bit too keen but I persevered because I quite liked him. Over the course of the week, he seemed to come across as needing a lot of validation and was insecure about how I felt which I voiced to him, I said to stop worrying and to just chill and have fun otherwise will drive me bonkers. He is a highly suspicious person which concerned me and worried about women cheating on him. He seemed to be worried I would get bored of him etc I'm a commitment phobe. He is aware of this which made him really nervous. He asked me to go away with him over the weekend, I went and even met his dad. When I suggested he meet a friend of mine for a quick drink he started pulling away which I didn't stress about. Then I made a massive mistake I accused him of looking up my brother in law on linked in when in fact it was the other way around (the guy I'm seeing is an ex rugby guy so my brother in law was interested) My brother In law seemed to be sure he didn't do it but must have clicked by mistake on his profile. I obviously had no reason to doubt my family so confronted the guy because I thought he was checking up on me and my family! Yeah I know I'm paranoid but I've met some psycho guys In the past! He is really offended which is fair enough, I apologised and explained I've had some weird experiences in the past. Anyway he now says he wants to leave it until the new year as things are moving too fast. Which to be honest is a bit weird as he is the one who was moving things quickly not me. He was talking about having kids, buying house etc really early one!
Anyway have I blown it? Have I come across as needy?!