age difference

[lemon_1900]

I'm 31 year old guy and I love 21 year old girl but i'm shy to propose her bcoz of the age difference.

Please guide me.

[shh!]

She's too young to get married. She needs to grow up first. Wait for another 7 years (or more), and then propose.

[Tedel]

I disagree with waiting for 7 years. She's old enough to make a decision now. Just be honest about your intentions and respect her decision.

If you want an extra tip, make it a nice memorable moment.

I am having an age-difference situation but the other way round: she's 8 years older than me, and it's getting complicated. Any tips?

[shh!]

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[DoesntMatter]

I don't see a big deal in age differences when it comes to just sex, but as for dating I think people in their late teens and early 20s should find someone within about about 5 years (in the older direction if you are in your teens). But a 21 and 31 dating eachother is something I kind of disagree with

[lesa]

Great data shh! Looking around at the people who are divorced or separated, I think the information you found is generally true.

[lesa]

I would not have a issue with the age difference if she was 31 and you were 41 but at 21 she is at a very different stage and mindset and that will result in a poor statistics of longevity in marriage.