Hi,
i was in a brief reletionship,(both in our 30's) 3 months and while at first the dating was exciting etc, that spark never really developed and this was the reason for our relationship ending , which ended on good terms. The thing is whilst i was with her for some reason i was nervous, which to be honest i have never had before, i was excited around her, which tipped into nerves and she picked up on this a few times as you would and thing is the more aware i was of it, the more i felt the nerves, even though we got on well this effected the free flowing of us and hence i think contributed towards the spark not igniting. Ok we are over now and did finish on good terms, the thing is , should i say to her that this is how i felt and i feel this was one of the reasons for the spark not happening?? or do women see this a weak thing? She is a very confident lady, however i have always gone for this type of character. I could also entertain the possibility of building up a friendship as i beleive onthis level the nerves will not be there as there will be not expectations.
Your thoughts please