Should I mention it?

[RightSaidNed]

Hi ladies; I would like to know if you ladies think it's better that a virgin mention to the woman there about to get involved with that they are a virgin; specifically in my case, I'm 25 (old, I know) and she's 28 and experienced. I think she already knows I am such, but I haven't specifically said so

[kisswithafist]

yes you need to let her know that you are, im sure it wont matter but if you tell her at least she knows to be gentle with you! make sure you let her know before you have sex with her.

[OneQuestion]

I didn't tell my current fiance' I was a virgin the first time we had sex. Later I did tell her. She told me I should have told her earlier so, "she could have made my first time more special". I don't know what she would have done though... back then she barely did anything... didn't even give blowjobs... heh, so I don't know what she would have done... It is weird that she was the 'experienced' one... I was the virgin... however, I am the one who brought all the new sex ideas to our bedroom.

But yea, should you tell her... Well, some girls will just want to 'take' virginity of a man, just as men like to take the virginity of a woman. It isn't as common because most guys aren't virgins, but still happens. So make sure she has good intentions and if you two are in a seroius relationship, and sex is going to happen soon, you may want to tell her. She will find it sexy for sure... I know lots of people say they want an 'experienced' person, because a virgin doesn't know what to do in bed... I find that complete nonsense. She will find you being a virgin insanely sexy. And if you are anything like me(I didn't have sex till I was 20ish 19 but almost 20 - and I considerd that old for being a virgin)... but even though I was a virgin, I had had enough personal practice with watching porn that I was 'experienced' even though I never had sex.

So going against what I did in real life(learn from your mistakes)... I'd tell her.

Overall, it doesn't really matter. Not telling her put no strain on the relationship. But, she is experienced, and perhaps, unlike my GF at the time, knows how to do many things already. If you tell her your a virgin, she may be open to suggestions of how you want your first time to be. Giving you the option to ask for things. So if you want a BJ before, during, after sex. You want to cum somewhere(on her butt, tits, face, etc..)... She may be open to the discussion and help make your first time amazing.