My boyfriend of two years and father of my nine month old daughter up and left us 2 days ago. I am a wreck. He is a heavy drinker and lately I have been getting on him pretty hard about getting a job, getting out of bed before 2,cutting down on the drinking. His friend just moved back to town and it has been party party party. He is now living with him. The friend has never liked me and has been pushing for this. I miss him and the baby of course is clueless, he was here now he isn't. Do I try to make contact or just sit it out and wait for him to come around? How long do I wait?