im 15 years old help!

[fredettelover]

hello, im 15 years old and shes 13 we are dumply in love. weve been dating for 7 months. it shows that she really loves me and i really love her. well me and her fight (little arguments) every like week.. i was wondering if its normal? the fights last for like 1 hour max and always end up by fixing it anybody has any tips to keep this relashionship going post em here. we make out already but thats the fearthest we are going. we are to young for other stuff thx


ps: we both wnana last for ever together. so tips on how to make the relashionship going would be very nice


THANK

opps and im brand new:d nice forums

[okapa]

It's normal at your (our) age. I'm also 15 and I've a friend who argues with his girlfriend more than once a day.

They get really mad at each other once a week, too.

To make the relationship last long, don't fall into routines. Do something different every 2 weeks. Don't do it every day or it will just become routine like other things.

Then, all you can do is advance to another level of intimacy, emotionally and physically.

(btw, it's further, not fearther ; ) )

[buzwiz]

Little arguments are perfectly normal, making up is always the best bit

make sure you keep the realtionship fun, dont fall into a rut, dont be too protective or controling make sure you both have your own space but not too much or it looks like you arent bothered any more.

xx

[Illusional]

as i started to read your post, i kept thinking to myself, is this guy really 15? you talk pretty mature for your age. however, as i got to the ending portion of your post, you regressed back to a little boy.

as for your problem, couple always fight. some fight once a week, while others fight on a daily basis. fighting is common, but it's how long do you want to put up with one another that is the real question.

raverboy

[vashti]

If you want to last forever with a 13 year old child, I suggest you fall asleep for 50 years or so, like Rip Van Winkle. Otherwise, it is unlikely to last, so enjoy it while it does.

[Illusional]

wow vash.. you're more positive that i could ever imagine.

raverboy

[FoxyLaydee]

What do 15 year old argue about in a relationship??

Too cute.

Arguments are normal in relationships and I know a few people that argue just for the sake of arguing and also cause they are bored.

Make each other happy and hopefully, there'll be no arguments!



Good luck!

[Illusional]

at 15 you argue about which movie to see, or who stole whose lunch money.

raverboy

[curious]

Does someone really need a serious relationship at 15?

Too early I'd say.

[Tiay]

If you want to last forever with a 13 year old child, I suggest you fall asleep for 50 years or so, like Rip Van Winkle. Otherwise, it is unlikely to last, so enjoy it while it does.

Does someone really need a serious relationship at 15?

Too early I'd say.

ouch, guys. Who cares if it's "too early"? Who cares if statistically it is pretty much an impossibility that he'll stay with his 13 year old girlfriend forever?

Did the regulars on this forum play it safe and not put their hearts into it in their first few relationships, because it was statistically unlikely to work out? Or did they jump in and get hurt when it ended? I'm betting it's mostly the latter. That's just how you learn and gather experience.

[vashti]

I think it is silly to give false hope, and I DID say enjoy it while it lasts. That was probably nicer than saying it is inappropriate for a 13 year old to have a boyfriend, which is what I really think.

[FoxyLaydee]

ouch, guys. Who cares if it's "too early"? Who cares if statistically it is pretty much an impossibility that he'll stay with his 13 year old girlfriend forever?

Did the regulars on this forum play it safe and not put their hearts into it in their first few relationships, because it was statistically unlikely to work out? Or did they jump in and get hurt when it ended? I'm betting it's mostly the latter. That's just how you learn and gather experience.

Exactly! Nicely said, Tiay.

Regardless it's appropriate or not, teenagers are going to go ahead and do whatever they want anyway.

[vashti]

Regardless it's appropriate or not, teenagers are going to go ahead and do whatever they want anyway.

This may be true for some kids, but in my experience, certainly not all.

[FoxyLaydee]

This may be true for some kids, but in my experience, certainly not all.

Of course not - SOME are.. NOT every single one of them.

[vashti]

I've seen first hand too many teenage mothers to pretend it is in any way appropriate to start dating so young. This is what *really* happens to a lot of young girls who date too young, not to mention the emotional stress that usually accompanies teenage romance. 13 year olds just aren't emotionally equipped to deal with it all, even though they think they are.