I am new here, and have never really looked for advice in dating. Let my start by saying I am 20 years old, and for the first time of my life I actually love a lady.
My whole life, any “girlfriend” I had was a mutual friends-with-benefits type of deal. However, almost a year ago now, I met a girl who I began dating (not a very serious thing), but as things progressed I began realizing how I really just wanted to spend time with her to know her. I am a person who rarely gives in to emotions, and honestly tends to lack them (usually the good ones). Actually I tend to feel “bad” emotions much more than good ones. Ever since I met her, things are different; I realized I was feeling something new.
I told her a long time ago how I feel, and she reciprocated. So, for the first time in my life I am currently in a committed relationship with someone I genuinely care about, very much so. I have been with her for ten months “officially”, and everything is going great, or at least seems that way. The thing is, I feel I am too cliché. Our dates are typical, dinner and movie. Of course, I change it up once in a while with a special dinner, more of a white tablecloth deal.
For me honestly, I don’t really care what we are doing, I care that I am doing it with her. My problem is that I don’t know if she cares, or will grow tired of it. So my questions are the following:
1: Will it eventually bore her?
2: What are some ideas to change it up, things a man/significant other has done for you?
3: Something you have not done, but maybe have wanted to?
I also, have a few questions regarding something else. I am sorry for bombarding with questions, it is just that I am really new with a committed relationship, and I feel some pressure. She gives me my own personal space, and I feel I do the same for her, but I am not positive that I do. What are some signs she would show if I am cramping her too much? Maybe even signs I show myself?
I thank anyone for their advice/answers in advance, and also for reading all that I wrote. It is extremely appreciated.