Hi everyone, Ive recently came out of a 5.5 year relationship with my ex girlfriend, we have a 2 year old daughter together. weve broke up before then got engaged then we broke up again and she sold the ring for £100 bought a top and went out for the night on the piss!!
There has been cheating and my ex confesses that she is a compulsive liar!!
Any way our recent break up involved domestic violence police arressted me and i have to go to court, my ex dropped the charges which were abit extreme now i am back living with my father, i do miss her very much and miss spending time with my daughter.
After a few weeks when the dust settled my ex and i began to make contact even thou she has a non molestation order out against me!!
Weve been split now almost 2 months and have started meeting again, the passion is amazing and she has told me she loves me, but it only seems as if she wants me when shes nothing else to do i.e during the week.
At the moment she seems to be obsessed with meeting someone new to replace me, on saturday night i went to the local pub and she was there and started flirting with a bouncer but later admited it was to annoy me!!
Im trying my best to save our family and have told her it means more to me than moving on, last week she said she didnt want to know me then i backed off abit and gave her space and i attemped suicide in a way i was that drunk i fell alsleep so never took the overdose.
My ex was simpathetic and very worried i started to ignore her and she texted lots of msg's which i ignored.
I called up the other night and she got us a pizza, i actually have lost a stone in weight from not eating properly then we arranged to have a dvd night last night which i got the pizza this time, we got on really well and kissed etc etc etc she told me she loved me asked me to stay, i couldnt really sleep and read her texts on her phone which i know i shouldnt have done, i saw texts to her friend talking about saturday night there all going out it was like 'so theres 4 guys in our taxi bus?? i wonder what marty is like' and other saying 'yeah he is beautiful but he's a pervert and if he touches your bum again i will slap him' an other was like 'im sick of these boys im going to find me a real man on saturday night' now i know were split up but these texts really hurt me!! i woke her up and asked her she just said supose thats us falling out for an other week just go and post my keys through the letter box!! so i left and havent texted her, its almost 9am so shed be heading to work after leaving our daughter to the nursury.
Im sorry for my bad typing maybe im not making sense but im just really hurt and confused right now, i want my family back but my ex seems to play allot of games, and is a crafty girl!!! she is sneeket and devious and admited being a compulsive liar, im just wondering what should i do ignore her for a few days and make her think or just run to her like a dog??
I mean how can she tell me she loves me then just go on a date with someone 2 hours later then go out that night and meet another guy and go back to his apartment for a party which her phone got stolen and £30 aswell
she got the phone back without the sim card. and still she keeps in touch with that clowen.
please help and ask any questions
thanks