Is it possible for a man to remain friends and only friends…no hanky panky with a woman he had an affair with a year ago……followed by many suggestive e-mails. My guy says they are just "f_king with each other". The e-mails mean nothing. E-mails where he tells her she has amazing boobies……..she is hot……he is elated to be able to see her soon. So…..she comes to town….he goes out to see her (we live together)……..says he took her out to dinner and to a casino. I texted him twice……he took over an hour to get back to me each time.