Originally Posted by
candygurl
Hi every one im new so let me jus tell you a lil bit about myself well first of all im sixteen and have a huge huge jelousy problelm ive had past experiances with boyfriends who would always compare me to ex girlfriends and i always would feel like i was ugly and i was going to eventually get cheated on well that was in the past now i am married and i hate when my husband waches movies with me with good looking girls with big boobs and what not i feel reeally angry and extremly jelous or also when we go out to the mall and girls pass by in my head i beleive the he imagines doing
things with them if you know what i mean so thats why we always leave from the stores mad with eachothe please help me with my jelousy problem please give me advice
It sounds like you are feeling insecure about yourself. In your head you are finding enemies in another women and because of this insecurity you allow them to win over you. The answer is to become more confident in yourself and value yourself more. I think it's obvious that if your husband liked other girls more than you then he wouldn't have married you. Don't give him reasons to divorce you by finding yourself less valuable or attractive than those other random stranger women.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~