I enjoy this site. It's entertaining, stimulating and trust me not here to judge or make personal attacks. However,I got some nasty flack on chat that was distasteful and unnecessary. I was sharing a sitatuation on the chat with some members not disrespecting anyone specifically some had a problem with my relationship with a married older guy who has a disabled spouse and wants to move on with this life. I agree that it is nothing to be proud of some needed to grow a thicker skin and just listen without acting less sensible. We are hopefully mostly mature adults on this site and all you need to to is either listen or keep moving. How do you feel this situation should be addressed on here? I am very thick skinned but I believe i have offended some people who appear not be level headed and let their emotions get out of control? I would like some mature in control comments on how you feel about the situation and how you think the people on their addressed it? Whatever you want to say is fine? But folks stay in control and mature without attacking folks calling them "tramps" and the b... word! I have no time for kid stuff ,grown up stuff is all. Peace to ya and hope to hear from you and be happy on your terms. It' your life. I am not here to judge just loving enjoying life while it last. Shall we say let's grow up?