A year ago I came out of a 14 year relationship. The breakup was unexpected and left me pretty messed up. For the last 11 years I have had a pretty close friendship with someone at work. We vibe so well everyone thought we were an item. Nothing ever happened between us, because I was in a happy relationship. Now that I'm single we seem to be getting wires crossed. He has been a major support for me.
When we hang out it's easy, flirtatious, and hours fly by.... But after a few times of this he withdrew and was weird. Then he came back around and was very attentive/affectionate. I admit I backed off. So, anyway, we hung out a number of times over the last few weeks and now he's weird again.(distant). He's open about a lot of things to me, shares his writing, has given me his artwork, personal things he hasn't done for other people. I'm so confused. I want a chance, but I don't want to push for an answer too soon.