A little background:
Met a girl through work. We're both mid-20's. We do not work in the same building and would not have contact unless we actually called each other...so it was rare I would bump into her. We talked a few times on the phone and we got along great. Had a first date (on a Sunday) around the city and had a fantastic time. We really clicked (IMO) and kissed some and I set up a second date a few days later because I was going to the beach that weekend. Had a great dinner and talking, she seemed very interested and we made-out a little at the end of the evening. She eagerly proclaimed she wanted a third date.
While I was at the beach, we texted and chatted on the phone...looking back now, I think it was a mistake because we did it a little TOO much. I should have backed off a little but we were into one another.
Following Tuesday I talk to her, she had earlier told me on our first and second dates about how she was moving (closer to my area for work reasons) and I had earlier offered to help her move. I once again reaffirm to helping her move and she says we'll "play it by ear". I call her two days later, leave a message...no response. She moves into her new place that weekend (Memorial Day weekend) and time goes on.
For the hell of it, I call her one more time two weeks later and leave a funny voicemail to see if she calls me.I doubt she would, but she later on sends me a text on that Sunday asking how I am and that she is sorry for not getting touch sooner. We have a short text convo before I end up going to sleep telling her I'll call her the following week. I purposely keep contact to a minimum as I don't want to "overdo" it like I did during the beach.
I call her and we chat a little bit. Somewhat flirty. She tells me her big weekend plans (though I never really asked) and I ask her out to dinner on Friday night. Once again, she says "can we play it by ear because I may not get all my errands done?" and even states that if she can't do Friday, that we can do the following week. She had a day-long bachorette party on Sat. (today) about two hours away and was bringing some stuff. I say "Sure, but I need 24 hours notice if you're going to cancel". She texts me the next day saying that all the girls decided to go down to the town the night before since it was far away and cancels for Friday, I'm cool and joke with her telling her I'll call her Sunday evening to set something up for next week and she responds that is grea. No biggie...and Sunday is out because it's Father's Day.
Sorry for the long topic. But this would be our third date...if it is even something like that because the lapse of communication for two weeks, and I don't even know if she would've got in touch with me if I hadn't left her a second voicemail. Do you think this is similar to hitting the "reset" button? Why would she just vanish and then reappear like that?
A (girl)friend of mine told me I should call her out on her disappearance for two weeks, not in a mean way, but a funny way. But be somewhat firm about getting a reasonable answer. She said it is the third date and you should know whether there's a reason to keep going on with her or not. What do you all think?