Hi,
I used to suffer from low self esteem years ago, but mostly got over it until recently when I started seeing a girl, who in my honest opinion - is the most amazing, intelligent, beautiful girl in the world. She gets guys hitting on her all the time, but I don't feel insecure because she is incredibly trustworthy, knocks all the guys back, and tells me everything with total honesty.
The problem is I just start feel really crap about myself. It's mostly physical. There's no 6-pack in sight for eg. I ask her things like: "what underwear do you think guys look sexy in", so that maybe if I was wearing them I could feel better, but all she ever says is that I look hot in everything. Obviously she tries to make me feel good about myself, but doesn't realise that she's not helping at all.
I feel crap.
Any advice?