First off, my apologies on the misspelling of the title.. I meant *pre* deployment breakup. Okay, let me start from the beginning... I met this guy a few months ago and we hit it off instantly. He seemed really into me and I liked him a lot as well. He met my family and everything. In the beginning he was almost sort of obsessive; saying I was the best thing that's ever happened to him, I complete him, I make him so happy, and even planning our future. One night he even followed me home to make sure I got there okay. Things were great. We never even had sex and he never pushed me to do it. He never pressured me to do anything and he would do anything for me. He was very comitted to me; wouldnt talk to other girls at all.We were either talking or together 24/7. He is shipping out in 3 months. About 2 weeks ago he started to become distant; I thought he was just stressed from working 2 jobs, baseball and being in the military. A few days ago he said to me "I've been doing a lot of thinking and I think it's best for me to leave single. You're a great girl and I had fun dating you. There was something between us but I'm just not feeling it now that I'm closer to shipping out." so we broke up. When I asked if he wanted to still talk at school and be friends he just said "I don't know". We haven't said a word since. When we pass each other he acts like I don't exist.. But I know he had feelings for me. And the weird thing is, it's not like we met and he unexpectedly developed feeling for me. He went so far out of his way to get my number and text me and say he was going to make me his and keep him. He said he was attracted to me without even talking to me. But how does someone go from that to acting like they never knew you? I guess my questions are, why did he start anything with me when he knew he was leaving and just what happened with him? And if nothing really happened between us, why doesn't hewant to be friends? Actually, any info or opinions on the situation would be great. Thanks!