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    Helping too much

    Is it good to allways help everybody?

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    Not if you do it at the expense of your own health, sanity or safety.
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    Depends on what you mean. It can be tottaly okay or it can be completely wrong.
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    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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    it's good to help but we all need to be selfish and think of ourselves at times.
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    As you can see we're all clearly alive.

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    The reason we help others is to help make the world better. Sometimes helping other comes at the expense of others, even ourselves. Make sure that when you are helping, the world is a better place because of it.

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    its not totally a bad thing but make sure that it dont go too much that it affects your personal life so much. occasional help and going all out is not really bad, but if you do it everyday? then you are bound to sacrifice a lot when there is no need to. just know where the limit is and make sure that you dont always go too all out.
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