Why Won't She Leave Me Alone?
So this girl I got pretty close with keeps sending me texts and trying to call me.
Here's the story:
We met online towards the beginning of summer and we got pretty close when I was unemployed and just working on my studies. We got really close and I liked talking to her. We talked on the phone and on Skype all the time. Then, I got my job and I realized that I won't have time for a relationship during the summer that is sort of long distance (50 some miles away). I just don't have time for it.
I told her and she was really upset. She basically cried on the phone to me. Then, she got a bf and started flaunting him and wanted me to still be her good friend. I tried this and it didn't work. I finally just told her to get the heck out of my life because it was destructive and realized that she was making me upset by constantly talking about her boyfriend. The weird thing is that her boyfriend has the same first name as me. I think that's kind of creepy.
Anyway, she keeps contacting me and I'm not sure what to do. My life seems better without her to be honest. I just wish she would stop contacting me and I would like to know why she keeps trying to contact me.
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