I met this girl on tinder. I am 29 years old and she is 22. Despite the age gap we had an amazing chemistry since day 1 chatting. We used to text and exchange pics whole day. She used to talk everything about her and we used have great time talking to one another. She said she never expected to meet such a character on tinder.
After a month of talking we had amazing 2 dates. First date was normal when we talked to each other for 4 hours and I gave her a gift for her new home on Date 1. She was very much impressed and told all her friends were impressed too. Then a week later we had a great date through which she kept asking Did you had fun with me? there was some intimate kissing at the end but nothing sexual..
Her brother added me on Linkedin and we were totally getting into each other..
Then we planned our 3rd date on next week and she was curiously waiting for it..She was giving signs that she is looking forward to have sex..We planned to meet in pub near her house, so that may be she could invite me over after the date. By this time we were in 3 months of talking and we used to talk whole day and prank each other sometimes.
Few hours before the third date I kind of played a prank just to add fun which might have spoiled her mood. I called at her work extension pretending to be someone, just a short 1 min prank. She got a bit creeped out of me calling to her work extension which she never gave me and may be that's why she shifted the date to some other place not near to her house.
We met and the date was okay, nothing as great as the first 2 dates were. Kissing at the end was intimate but could not ask for sex at the end as kind of felt shy at the moment. Later she told she was very much expecting for me to ask for it that day!
We continued texting..I was literally falling over for this girl and I was dating her exclusively and she was very much serious too..
I asked her out next week, to which she told she has some plans for some event and told me on texts that she can't wait to have sex with me.
She did not text for a day, obviously she was at her event so could not, I logged in to that event's page and someone had posted a video over there in which she was there dating some other guy..
I was kind of hurt at that moment as I expected she would not lie to me at least after 3 months of talking of some good 3 dates.
I just told her I can't believe I saw you in a video posted over that page but said nothing to which she laughed and said nothing too.
Next day the talk was like this:-
Me : I am sorry, I dint talk yesterday as I was having a strange feeling
She: You need not worry about it although I am sure about the source
Me: I am glad that feeling ended, I don't feel any different for you
She: Honestly I wasn't looking to get into dating some guy from another country(I am from Germany) to be the reason for them to stay or make it rough when they leave.
In response to which i texted her a lot that day that I wasn't upset about you dating someone and she was fine, just told me to chill.
But later in the evening broke up again when I told her I seriously like her, saying your country was bothering me...
I was totally getting love kind of vibe from her and 2 days before she told she can't wait to have sex with me and then right after 2 days broke up..
Did I act like a total stupid or was she a bitch??