new here and need lots of relationship help

[robotchick20]

Hi all! I'm new here i'm 20 and have a 1 year old baby boy. I'm engaged to a great guy, but our relationship is messed up. We love each other and want to be together forever, but it's hard with our problems. We've been together for almost 3 years now and have known each other for 6.
I hope yall could help us, will post soon, thanks!

[MaidenMinx]

How can we help when you tell us nothing of your problems?

[robotchick20]

Well that's what i was saying, i was going to post on it later "today". I have to use my cell phone so can be a little hard sometimes.
Basically sex is ruining our relationship. My fiancee had turned to it as a comfort thing before we got together and it lead him to cheat on me 5 times. He has gotten soo much better withen the 3 years of dating, but he is still addicted to sex wich worries me. It's hard to forget about the past, especially when i worry so much about his addiction. We want to be together forever, but this sex is ruining it. I am ALWAYS afraid to get pregnant again for the moment, paranoia each time we have sex. I do it though to make him happy, to make him understand he doesn't need to cheat, just to get sex. He loves me and hurts for everything he's done. He feels like a "mistake". I want to help him fight that addiction so we can work on really strengthining our relationship. The question is, how can i help him?

[MaidenMinx]

Is he open to counselling? Without counselling I don't see this problem go away.

If you're worried about pregnancy, go see your doctor.

5 times is a huge amount of times to be cheated on. No wonder your trust is shattered.